Tuesday, July 30, 2013

Why Nice Guys Finish Last

A common topic for guys of this age. Why Nice guys finish last?

Let me point out a few qualities about females and you will understand more.
  • Woman are the "weaker" gender
  • Woman are meant to be dominated
  • Woman needs to be taken care of
  • Woman needs security (From everything)
  • Woman are emotional beings
The above points are just a few examples of natural biological qualities about females. I am not saying they are weak but this is where a man comes in. Love is about two person joining together and help each other in their weak areas.

So, being a nice guy ACTUALLY means you are weak. A nice guy do not have the qualities that will protect his woman. They are just trying to be nice and hopefully what they do will give them what they want.

What do I mean by a weak guy?
  • Not strong
  • Not confident
  • No leadership qualities
  • Be nice to EVERYONE
Well, as you should know, there is no way that everyone will like you. Being nice to everyone means you are trying to do something that you don't like. People will just view you as some pushover. There will always be someone who hates Mother Teresa and someone will like Adolf Hitler.
Have you ever seen when a couple goes out to a meal and that guy can't decide what he wants to eat? There is no way that guy is a man. Having a dick doesn't mean you are a man.

Good thing is, you don't have to be an asshole to make girls like you. What you should do is to make yourself more like a man or you may say, gentleman.

So how to be a Man?
  • Be in control of everything
  • Make decisions
  • Build your character
  • Make more money
  • Improve yourself physically and mentally
  • Show your intentions and say what you think is good for yourself
Woman tend to follow and they will follow whom they think is good or good for them. They look up to someone who can protect them and take care of them. Being a real man will do just what is required. Lead them in every single way possible and be in control. Don't be a nice guy and ask for permission, man don't ask woman for permission.

The best way to be a real man is to lead other men. When even guys look up to you, you can be sure that women will come your way. A good training ground is army and the next best place is at work or back at your own home (your own family). Being a leader definitely can grow your character in many ways, continue learning and improving yourself and be a MAN. All the best!

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